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Post by Dai-T on Oct 13, 2013 19:37:46 GMT -5
So i'm setting up my advice corner and if anyone once to ask questions or need advice on life just ask here and I will do my best to help.
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Post by TwinTails on Oct 13, 2013 21:02:45 GMT -5
Does that include "dating" advice?  Well I always seem to end up liking girls that either seem repulsed by me or take me for a joke. What annoys me is that they won't come out and say it. Now I'm very stoic sometimes and very intelligent, so much that it's humiliating compared to the rest of my classmates during important test that I don't even study for. My character traits can be summed up as half geek/half goth but it doesn't show up in my appearance. I do wear glasses, I'm 18 but I look 13, I'm very quiet and I play my 3DS when I'm bored at lunch. I don't get into any trouble when half of the school does. Some of the kids there are completely ignorant. And that leads to me being the target of some envy. Now, I always seem to run into to a girl I like and she's not outright mean to me but as things progress, she just doesn't seem to want to take things seriously. I say hello to her and make eye contact, and I even try to befriend her and do nice things for her. Granted, she's probably never seen someone like me. Is she intimidated? Is she conceited? What do you think I'm doing wrong? |
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Post by Dai-T on Oct 13, 2013 21:54:10 GMT -5
Does that include "dating" advice? Well I always seem to end up liking girls that either seem repulsed by me or take me for a joke. What annoys me is that they won't come out and say it. Now I'm very stoic sometimes and very intelligent, so much that it's humiliating compared to the rest of my classmates during important test that I don't even study for. My character traits can be summed up as half geek/half goth but it doesn't show up in my appearance. I do wear glasses, I'm 18 but I look 13, I'm very quiet and I play my 3DS when I'm bored at lunch. I don't get into any trouble when half of the school does. Some of the kids there are completely ignorant. And that leads to me being the target of some envy. Now, I always seem to run into to a girl I like and she's not outright mean to me but as things progress, she just doesn't seem to want to take things seriously. I say hello to her and make eye contact, and I even try to befriend her and do nice things for her. Granted, she's probably never seen someone like me. Is she intimidated? Is she conceited? What do you think I'm doing wrong? . the real truth is girls like bad boys and jerks and this is true for young girls even nice girls because they want excitement and also kook cool. being nice guy does not cut it. only women care for nice guys. to get girls you have to get a girl. I know it sounds weird but you can get the worst girl and suddenly other girls will notice you. this is the alt way if you don't want to be a jerk. girls will see the other girl happy with you and wonder ge must be a good bf. don't be scared to touch her or any girl a lot. the more you touch the more they know you don't want to be just friends and it speed up the yes or no question quick. hope I helped. |
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Post by Dai-T on Oct 13, 2013 22:32:54 GMT -5
never befriend a girl if you are looking for more. I will give you a secret the biggest weakness of girls are emotions. once you get in a girls head you won. once you lean how to do this getting that girl and others will be easy. she may ignore you all day but if you can find a time to talk to her one on one and you come at her confident in what you say it does not matter her answer you can just tell here you like her this will sit in her head forever. and then you just keep at it until she gets the courage to say something back.
also image matters. its not how you look but where do you draw your confidence from. so when you speak to any girl you can always draw from this. it can be anything you feel that you are better then eveyone in the room at.
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Post by augen on Oct 15, 2013 16:24:42 GMT -5
Does that include "dating" advice? Well I always seem to end up liking girls that either seem repulsed by me or take me for a joke. What annoys me is that they won't come out and say it. Now I'm very stoic sometimes and very intelligent, so much that it's humiliating compared to the rest of my classmates during important test that I don't even study for. My character traits can be summed up as half geek/half goth but it doesn't show up in my appearance. I do wear glasses, I'm 18 but I look 13, I'm very quiet and I play my 3DS when I'm bored at lunch. I don't get into any trouble when half of the school does. Some of the kids there are completely ignorant. And that leads to me being the target of some envy. Now, I always seem to run into to a girl I like and she's not outright mean to me but as things progress, she just doesn't seem to want to take things seriously. I say hello to her and make eye contact, and I even try to befriend her and do nice things for her. Granted, she's probably never seen someone like me. Is she intimidated? Is she conceited? What do you think I'm doing wrong? I would say this. There is nothing wrong with being single and enjoying life. Too many people I saw growing up made themselves miserable desiring someone or forced a relationship they were not happy in. From my own experience it was after a bad break up I just decided to be perfectly content being single. It was awesome, I did what I wanted and did not have to worry about anyone else. Allowed me to be completely selfish in regards to plans and how I lived. For example I back packed through Europe on my own for four months. Eventually I met someone awesome who loved and appreciated me for who I am and it blew away all my previous relationships. She's incredible and I really do think part of why it has gone so well is in part taking that "me time" portion of my life. Besides you're 18, that is really young and feels younger every year I get older. No need to rush things. Also, to make you feel better I am 28 and on a business trip this year the flight attendant asked for photo ID proof that I was 15 and was able to sit in the exit row. Genetics, aw well we shall laugh when we're 50 and everyone thinks we're still 30. |
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Post by Dai-T on Oct 15, 2013 17:34:22 GMT -5
Does that include "dating" advice? Well I always seem to end up liking girls that either seem repulsed by me or take me for a joke. What annoys me is that they won't come out and say it. Now I'm very stoic sometimes and very intelligent, so much that it's humiliating compared to the rest of my classmates during important test that I don't even study for. My character traits can be summed up as half geek/half goth but it doesn't show up in my appearance. I do wear glasses, I'm 18 but I look 13, I'm very quiet and I play my 3DS when I'm bored at lunch. I don't get into any trouble when half of the school does. Some of the kids there are completely ignorant. And that leads to me being the target of some envy. Now, I always seem to run into to a girl I like and she's not outright mean to me but as things progress, she just doesn't seem to want to take things seriously. I say hello to her and make eye contact, and I even try to befriend her and do nice things for her. Granted, she's probably never seen someone like me. Is she intimidated? Is she conceited? What do you think I'm doing wrong? I would say this. There is nothing wrong with being single and enjoying life. Too many people I saw growing up made themselves miserable desiring someone or forced a relationship they were not happy in. From my own experience it was after a bad break up I just decided to be perfectly content being single. It was awesome, I did what I wanted and did not have to worry about anyone else. Allowed me to be completely selfish in regards to plans and how I lived. For example I back packed through Europe on my own for four months. Eventually I met someone awesome who loved and appreciated me for who I am and it blew away all my previous relationships. She's incredible and I really do think part of why it has gone so well is in part taking that "me time" portion of my life. Besides you're 18, that is really young and feels younger every year I get older. No need to rush things. Also, to make you feel better I am 28 and on a business trip this year the flight attendant asked for photo ID proof that I was 15 and was able to sit in the exit row. Genetics, aw well we shall laugh when we're 50 and everyone thinks we're still 30. what you speak of is a long term goal and not eveyone can do this before they say I give up and they wait fot a relationship to be thrown at them. I would never advertise this path unless you already have confidence and know who you are and whee you are going. it sounds more like he is not at the level to think long term so its good to play the game now and take in the experience because it will only help him later telling him don't worry does nothing but keeps him in the house on friday nights. |
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Post by TwinTails on Oct 15, 2013 19:59:03 GMT -5
Well no, I think part of the problem can be summed up to the girls also being snobbish at some points. There was this overweight girl that I thought I liked, but I caught her talking about me behind my back during breakfast. I wasn't wearing my glasses at the time so she couldn't recognize me until I held them up. I often get the hint that I look better without them for the most part.
There were times when a girl did like me but they either moved on or I ended up screwing up the situation by accident. That's where some of my experience would come from. This girl with amazingly large hips stopped liking me after I stupidly sent her an infected file. She thought I hacked her computer and I feel stupid every time I think about it.
I'm not completely sure if I got her to understand before she graduated a few years back. She came to visit my school back in august and I said nothing much to her. Her name was Arielle.
That conditioned me not to send strange files to people from now on.
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Post by Dai-T on Oct 15, 2013 20:06:41 GMT -5
Well no, I think part of the problem can be summed up to the girls also being snobbish at some points. There was this overweight girl that I thought I liked, but I caught her talking about me behind my back during breakfast. I wasn't wearing my glasses at the time so she couldn't recognize me until I held them up. I often get the hint that I look better without them for the most part. There were times when a girl did like me but they either moved on or I ended up screwing up the situation by accident. That's where some of my experience would come from. This girl with amazingly large hips stopped liking me after I stupidly sent her an infected file. She thought I hacked her computer and I feel stupid every time I think about it. I'm not completely sure if I got her to understand before she graduated a few years back. She came to visit my school back in august and I said nothing much to her. Her name was Arielle. That conditioned me not to send strange files to people from now on. those are the best girls to practice talking to because you don't really care for them and if thet turn you down its whatever to but if they don't you gain confidence since you was able to talk and get something off your chest. girls are snobbish when they are around othet girls just like guys. once you pull someone to the side just you and them then you can see the true them. don't send girls viruses idk if you think a girl likes you a little you better make physical contact or be banished to friend zone. |
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Post by Dai-T on Oct 15, 2013 20:30:06 GMT -5
I would advise anyone that wears glasses look in to getting contacts serious.
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Post by Leon Tekashi on Oct 15, 2013 20:35:00 GMT -5
To be honest, I'm still looking into getting contacts myself.
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Post by Ikaruga on Oct 15, 2013 20:43:28 GMT -5
All of you here wear glasses?
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Post by Dai-T on Oct 15, 2013 20:49:13 GMT -5
To be honest, I'm still looking into getting contacts myself. don't look get it done. unless you are a smooth talker then this is not for you. |
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Post by Dai-T on Oct 15, 2013 20:58:06 GMT -5
All of you here wear glasses? nope but maybe I need reading glasses because these smart phones are going to make me blind. |
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Post by Ikaruga on Oct 15, 2013 20:59:35 GMT -5
I see welp i guess i'm lucky i don't need glasses at all. XD
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Post by Dai-T on Oct 15, 2013 21:04:17 GMT -5
I see welp i guess i'm lucky i don't need glasses at all. XD you have a smart phone? |
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